I came across this article about birth altars early last week and realized I had forgotten something. Well, maybe not forgotten, because I researched this at the start of my pregnancy, but I definitely had a little more preparation to do. Some people bring things to help them before, during, and after labor. They can be items to focus on or to help calm them or a reminder of something that gives them strength, as faith often does. Tangible objects are unnecessary when it comes to faith but, the truth is, they help for a lot of people. That's what a birth altar is: objects to help with those things like focus and courage and healing on a spiritual level. Giving birth is a transformative event and transformation is a big deal in many neo-pagan faiths.
Building a small, portable birth altar to take with me to the hospital is fairly easy. The first thing I needed to do with this project is to realize and understand that, once active labor starts, I'm probably not going to be thinking of much of anything else. So, I designed my altar with that in mind: putting objects in a bag where they can be brought out if time/space/mental capacity allows but will still lend their energies if they don't.
So, I started with the bag that will keep all my objects nicely contained. I modified this free pattern to make a little bag in the size I need and in colors that meant something to me- purple for me, blue for my husband, and green for growth and new life (yes, I know that purple, blue, and green are the colors the pattern designer used, that's not the point!).
|A collection of crystals.|
|Modern witches use modern tools!|
Next, I made an herb pouch. I put a few pinches of three healing herbs in it: peppermint, arnica, and white willow. There are also some cleansing herbs: sage, lavender, and dragon's blood resin. I've found that just having herbs near me lends their energy and I don't need much.
|Tiny pouch of herbs.|
My birth altar also needs an altar cloth because, while it's likely to stay in the bag for the birth itself just for practicality, all of these things will be helpful in recovery too. I picked a piece of cotton in a pleasing pattern and color and cut approximately a 9x9 square (9 being a sacred number) and serged the edges.
There are two final touches for my birth altar. The first is for me; I made a bracelet out of gems to aid in birth and recovering. I used fluorite, long used as a healing stone and to bring balance to the body in times of stress, and moonstone, good for balancing feminine energies, to promote a safe birth, and encourage healing of the female reproductive system. After I have charged and dedicated my items, I will wear this bracelet daily. There are 27 stones, the same number I use for my wrist malas. I definitely don't think I'll be able to count prayers with a mala while in labor but I certainly can, and plan to, in the days leading up to it. Counting prayers with a strand of mala beads is a calming and meditative act to me - and to many who use prayer beads. I have also prepared some affirmations and prayers to repeat in the coming days and after Poppyseed finally arrives.
|A wrist mala of fluorite and moonstone.|
The last item I want to include is a gift for my daughter. Even though there is no shortage of gifts for my daughter, many that were made especially for her, this one will be packed with the altar if it arrives in time. It is an amber necklace, and there is one for me as well. Amber necklaces on infants seems to be a fad right now, but a witch already knows the value of amber. It is a stone (yes, not technically a stone) that has been used for ages to draw dis-ease from the body. As a healer, it promotes tissue regeneration and balances and cleanses the chakras. She is not going to need this right away, but it will go in the altar bag just the same, my first magical gift to her.
|All the things, sitting on my altar for dedication.|
Preparing a portable altar for a specific reason goes beyond just getting things that have meaning and purpose for the task. Like most magical items, you want to dedicate them: specifically state in a ritualistic way what the altar is for and why those items were chosen. This also serves to cleanse them of any previous, unrelated purpose, so all your tools and items are fully dedicated to the task at hand. Since I only just finished putting my altar together, with the exception of the amber necklaces that should be in the mail and on the way to me soon, I haven't done this yet, though some cleansing has already begun. My dedication ritual is simple, and there is no need for something elaborate and complex anyway. This final part will be completed, and the items packed away and ready, this evening.
27 birth affirmations, to be repeated four times (this is why we count with a mala):
I will have a strong and healthy baby.
I trust my body to know how to birth this child.
I trust my instincts to know what I need in labor.
I am a strong and capable woman.
My body was built for this.
I accept myself completely here and now.
I feel inner peace and serenity.
I feel the love of others around me.
I am a powerful, loving, and creative being.
My baby knows how and when to be born.
I will breathe deeply and slowly.
I am completely relaxed and comfortable.
I will have an uncomplicated birth.
I will have a joyous birth.
Birth is a safe and wonderful experience.
All I need to do is relax and breathe.
Everything is going as it should.
Inhale peace, exhale tension.
My baby is healthy.
I know my baby feels our calmness and confidence.
I am ready and prepared for childbirth.
My job is to relax and allow the birth to happen.
I am excited to give birth to my baby.
I have courage, faith, and patience.
My courage and patience will send my baby into my arms.
I am open to the energy of birth.
I deserve this wonderful birth experience.
Some pre-birth prayers:
Mother Goddess, sitting so gently,
I will need both gentleness and strength in the days ahead.
Aid me as I become a mother:
You know well what that means.
May I know also.
Stand about her, servants of the Mother,
Singing the birth songs clearly
So that my baby, although deep inside,
May learn what she must know
To do what she must do.
Go before her, Great Mother,
Open the gates, open the doors,
Open all the ways, that the birth might be easy.
The child moves down the birth canal
On the first of her many journeys.
Mother Goddess, make her journey be smooth and safe.
Some post-birth prayers:
On this baby who rests in my arms,
Pour blessings, O Lord, pour blessings.
On this baby who rests in my arms,
Pour blessings, O Lady, pour blessings.
May the gods walk beside this child throughout her life,
Guiding her steps into the way proper to her,
Guiding her way along the sacred path.